I was juggling other entries on top of everything else I was trying to do today and before I go to sleep I wanted to at least end my day with this sad announcement.
Today was my nephew’s birthday so when I called my brother’s house to wish Nick good tidings, Brian told me the bad news right away about Uncle Chief passing over the weekend. I had heard he had been was with stomach cancer recently but never received any details.
Although I only saw him a few times in my life, he was a pretty decent person to me. He was the first Maggi to earn his college degree (my dad is younger which why he “lost” the race). Chief had been an executive with food packaging companies (I think). His time with M&M/Mars was memorable since all kids dig candy. He also managed several of his own businesses which I thought was fitting because he always was a boss-type person. That’s not meant to be a dig, there’s just some people who like to be in charge and they always have a plan.
Sadly, the last time I saw him was the Summer of 1986 before I left for Marquette. Chief and his wife Mary were in the process of moving to Seattle to start a new business or something, it was 19 years ago, I don’t remember the specifics. I only wish I had at least one more interaction with him as an adult since I was still a smart-assed, know-it-all teenager in 1986.
One great thing I will always remember about him was what I learned in 1985. That Summer, Grandma (Maggi) was terminally ill with cancer. Before she died, she left me her vast collection of Sci-Fi paperbacks. I had no idea she liked that stuff but it did explain why I did. However, why didn’t my dad read Sci-Fi? Dad preferred mysteries, especially Agatha Christie. Turned out Chief was a big fan of Tolkien and Herbert so he inherited Grandma’s hardbacks of those novels. At least I wasn’t alone in my family for liking that “nerd shit.”
So sorry to hear about your Uncle. Keep those good memories, they will serve you well. Don’t ever think about time you didn’t get, only cherish the time you had.