With a heavy heart and a good amount of sadness, Somara and I are no longer married. The final decree is in her side’s hands now to make this all 100% complete but for all practical reasons, purposes, etc. it’s done. The division of money, property, debts, LEGO sets, whatever are in stone. I also learned that neither of us can make any claims of infidelity too which thankfully was never an issue with us. We had disagreements even during the good years but one thing our marriage lacked was jealousy or accusations of cheating. We both had strong moral fortitude in this department, a Maggi flaw I am grateful not to have since I have an idiot uncle with it. Word has it, the “gene” managed to skip all the cousins! Phew!
I still hope to be friends with Somara later. Currently, matters are rather raw. Hell, I’m amazed I can sit down after what it cost me and according to my other divorced friends, I got off light plus I got to keep my house. Somara remains a good person and we were friends too, I want to hold on the friendship which made the relationship work, just give me some days to heal.
Thanks for all your support.